Healthily Dealing With Combat Pay

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A lot of soldiers coming back from Iraq (and indeed, from any war) are no doubt familiar with the sudden change in lifestyle. At one point, they’re nothing but a grunt, living on whatever Uncle Sam provides them with. However, through the entire conflict, they are earning combat pay that they do not necessarily see or touch. While some soldiers firmly embrace the notion of “eat, drink and be merry,” a lot of soldiers simply do not have time to leave the combat zone and go party it up. Therefore, this ends up letting them accumulate a rather hefty supply of cash that sits there until they come home. Moreover, when they get home, the whole world changes for them.

Many veterans have all kinds of benefits. From free education to free health care, the needs a returning vet may encounter are numerous. However, having a fat wad of combat pay, and not a lot of fixed expenses to devour it, is a somewhat double-edged sword. On the one hand, it can be really great to go check out the new Chevrolet models, knowing you can have any of them (or even two, if you want). But on the other hand, it can encourage a lot of bad habits. Remember Ozzie Osborne.

If you come back home with more money than you have ever seen in your account, it can be tempting to hit the club, and do everything but try to buy the place. A few hours, a lot of drinks and possibly a few less legal substances later, you end up no better off. A smart returning vet needs to take some time to think through their battle plan for living a civilian life. Money can help you achieve your goals, but it’s no substitute for having them in the first place. Be sure to make your plan sober.

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Helping Ease the Time Away from a Soldier at War

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It appears for every soldier that returns home from Iraq, another goes away to war. The never ending cycle of soldiers going off to war means that a family has to deal with the emotions that come with seeing a soldier off to war. There are plenty feelings of anger, sadness, grief at missing them and abandonment when the soldier goes to leave for the war. However there are ways that can help you or a loved one cope with the time that the soldier is away. Learning to cope with the emotions is a key element to ensuring your mental health is taken care of while that loved one is away.

Here are three examples of some of the coping mechanisms that help ease the emotions of having a loved one overseas.

Consider getting a memento to remember each other by. Loved ones enjoy having something physical they can use to remember their loved one who is overseas. Some of the mementos that have helped others include matching designer jewelry with engraved sayings, stuffed animals, pictures and videos. All of these items will help those who have to stay at home.

Email/write often. Emails and letters from loved ones help those that are away at war just as much as they help the people who are at home. These letters are a great way to make everyone feel connected, loved and a little less lonely.

Make voice enhanced Items. Voice enhanced items are a great way to remember a loved one that is overseas or cope with the feelings of loneliness. There are books that a loved one can have their voice recorded on, stuffed animals that have voice boxes that say “I love you” in the loved ones voice and even picture frames that talk. All of these items can help someone cope with the emotions that come with having a loved one serving in the armed forces.

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Will My Loved One Need Drug Rehab When They Return?

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Having a loved one return from serving overseas can be a very nerve wrecking moment. After not seeing them for the whole term of their deployment, you are walking into a bit of an unknown situation. While it can be very scary thinking about there is a slight possibility that your loved one could need drug rehab when they return.

Serving overseas is not like a vacation. Your loved one is not sight seeing and taking in the sights of Iraq. There is a lot of heavy issues and events happening over there. One of the biggest issues that many soldiers coming back face is the possibility that they are addicted to drugs. There are many drugs that are widely available all throughout the Middle East. In an effort to ease the pain and loneliness that many soldiers are facing in Iraq they might turn to trying out these readily available drugs.

As a loved one back home it might not be as obvious that your loved is facing an addiction problem and may need drug rehab. It is a disturbing possibility that many families face when their loved one returns.

So what do you do if your loved one returns with a drug problem?

Whatever you do, don’t panic. There are many resources out there especially for soldiers that can help aide them with their dependency. Let your loved one know that they are loved and supported, then offer up the possibility of entering a rehab. Your loved one might fight you on this suggestion at first but overtime they may see that they have a real issue that needs to be address.

If your loved one does not want to enter rehab, there isn’t much that can be done. Entering rehab is a decision that only he or she can make.

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Protection, Whether Pet Insurance or a Doctor, Hard to Find in Iraq

With Obama pulling troops out of Iraq and declaring the war officially over, the country appears to be on the path towards self determination and possible democracy. But even so, Iraq will still have many challenges to overcome in its future. Many of these challenges come from the goal of a healthy Iraqi citizenry.

In America, people often buy pet insurance to help protect against their pet falling ill and needing expensive procedures. In Iraq, civilians are struggling for health care themselves, let alone insuring livestock or pets.

In the 1970s Iraq instituted a nationalized health care system. In the Iraqi election March 2010, improving health care was one of the biggest concerns of the people. Some claim that the problem with Iraq’s current health care system is the crumbling Iraqi infrastructure, others point to a country not recovered from a war.

Big public hospitals are the only ones equipped with the technology and supplies to diagnose complicated illnesses. Yet, these hospitals are often understaffed with both doctors and nurses. Upon occasion, the doctors stay away from hospitals to avoid being kidnapped or killed; an estimated half of Iraq’s doctors have left the country. Many were forced to flee due to sect or wealth. Meanwhile, taking a walk in the streets of Baghdad could prove hazardous to a citizen’s health. As the violence continues, the doctors are not returning.

However, public hospitals are not the only option. Private health care in Iraq is available but extremely expensive. Often times, the cost to see a specialist is prohibitive. The result is that Iraqi citizens are not receiving the health care they desperately need. In a country where bombs are flying and violence is prevalent, people are dying from a lack of a health care as a basic service. This is one challenge the Iraqi government will have to tackle in order to truly help its people.

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